Listen or Follow Along
Check In: It’s My Fault
Say aloud:
It’s My Fault
Notice how true it feels in your body on a scale from 0 to 10. Zero means the statement has no felt charge for you, and 10 means it feels completely true.
Starting intensity: _____
Tapping 1: It’s My Fault
Side of the Hand: Even though it’s my fault… I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.
Even though it’s definitely my fault… I’m okay and getting over it.
Even though it’s my fault… can’t change the past, can I?… I accept who I am and how I feel.
Top of the Head: It’s my fault.
Eyebrow: It’s all my fault.
Side of the Eye: It’s definitely all my fault.
Under the Eye: I feel totally to blame.
Under the Nose: It’s my fault, and no one else’s.
Chin: It’s the truth! It’s my fault!
Collarbone: It’s so easy and natural to blame myself.
Under the Arm: I wonder where I learned that it’s all my fault?
Take a slow breath.
Tapping 2: It’s My Fault
Side of the Hand: Even though it’s my fault… I choose to accept all of me anyway.
Even though it’s probably all my fault… I mean, who else can I blame?… I deeply and completely accept all of my feelings.
Even though I’m still convinced that it’s my fault… I’m okay and getting better.
Top of the Head: Still my fault.
Eyebrow: It’s always my fault!
Side of the Eye: Why is that?
Under the Eye: Could it be that it isn’t all my fault?
Under the Nose: Maybe it’s not my fault.
Chin: What if it’s nobody’s fault?
Collarbone: That would be different.
Under the Arm: I am open to the possibility that I’m not to blame.
Top of the Head: It’s not my fault!
Eyebrow: Oh yes it is!
Side of the Eye: No, it’s not my fault.
Under the Eye: I’ve decided to let go of the blame.
Under the Nose: I choose to feel surprisingly at peace.
Chin: It causes me pain to blame myself.
Collarbone: I welcome the relief of knowing that it’s not my fault.
Under the Arm: I appreciate that I am doing the best that I can… and I always have… even under very difficult circumstances.
Take a slow breath.
Check Again: It’s My Fault
Say It’s My Fault again. Notice how true it feels now.
Current intensity: _____
If another pass feels right, repeat the practice while staying attentive to what you notice in your body.
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Getting Started
Pain Relief Coaching
Limiting Beliefs
- LB00 · Limiting Beliefs and Pain Relief – Introduction
- LB01 · Nothing Has Worked for Me Before
- LB02 · Nothing Will Work for Me
- LB03 · I’m a Tough Case
- LB04 · I Don’t Deserve to Get Well
- LB05 · I Am Unforgivable
- LB06 · I Deserve to be Punished
- LB07 · My Condition Is Incurable, So Why Bother Trying to Get Better?
- LB08 · It’s My Fault — current lesson
- LB09 · I Don’t Expect to Get Well
- LB10 · I Don’t Understand… WHY ME?
- LB11 · I’m Defective
- LB12 · Something is Wrong with Me
- LB13 · I’m Destined to Have a Lousy Life
- LB14 · I Can’t Take Care of Myself
- LB15 · I Can’t Do Anything Right
- LB16 · I Always Sabotage Myself
- LB17 · People My Age Have Problems Like This
- LB18 · I’ll Probably Be Miserable Forever
- LB19 · I Can’t Afford What I Need to Get Well
- LB20 · No One Understands What I’m Going Through
- LB21 · I’m Not Worthy of Attention
- LB22 · I Feel Unappreciated
- LB23 · I Can’t Have This Pain/Condition and Be Happy
- LB24 · My Pain is Beyond My Control
- LB25 · I’m Not In Control of My Feelings
- LB26 · My Symptoms Can’t Be Helped
- LB27 · It’s Not Fair!
- LB28 · I’m Taking Too Long To Heal
- LB29 · I’m Too Embarrassed to Talk About It
- LB30 · I Can’t Trust My Body to Heal
- LB31 · I Need to be Fixed!
Emotional States
- ES00 · Emotional States – Introduction
- ES01 · I’m Totally Stressed Out
- ES02 · I Am So Tired & Exhausted
- ES03 · I Feel Overwhelmed
- ES04 · I Feel Hopeless & Want to Give Up
- ES05 · I Feel Anxious All the Time
- ES06 · I’m So Impatient
- ES07 · I Feel Fearful & Scared
- ES08 · I Have So Much Self-Hatred
- ES09 · I’m Ashamed of Myself
- ES10 · I Feel So Guilty
- ES11 · I’m Always So Irritable
- ES12 · I’m Very Lonely
- ES13 · I Feel Betrayed By My Body
- ES14 · I Feel Grief & Sadness
- ES15 · I Feel Embarrassed
- ES16 · They Abandoned Me
- ES17 · I Hate Being Dependent on Others
- ES18 · I Feel Rejected
- ES19 · I Feel Angry
- ES20 · I’m So Resentful
- ES21 · I Feel So Unsupported & Unappreciated
- ES22 · I’m Very Unforgiving
- ES23 · I Feel Trapped By My Body’s Diagnosis
- ES24 · I Want To Withdraw
- ES25 · I Feel Unsafe
- ES26 · I Feel Despair & So Depressed
- ES27 · I Feel Hurt
- ES28 · I Have These Internal Conflicts
- ES29 · I Feel Apprehensive About the Future
- ES30 · I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do
- ES31 · I Feel Skeptical
