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Check In: I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do
Say aloud:
I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do
Notice how true it feels in your body on a scale from 0 to 10. Zero means the statement has no felt charge for you, and 10 means it feels completely true.
Starting intensity: _____
Tapping 1: I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do
Side of the Hand: Even though I feel so confused… and I’m not sure what to do… I accept myself and this confusion.
Even though I feel so confused… I deeply and profoundly accept myself anyway.
Even though I am not sure what to do… I’m so confused… I open myself to clarity.
Top of the Head: I feel so confused.
Eyebrow: I don’t know what to do.
Side of the Eye: I need to know what to do.
Under the Eye: But I feel so very confused.
Under the Nose: I want clarity.
Chin: I feel so confused… and that makes me anxious.
Collarbone: I am not sure what to do.
Under the Arm: I am confused… not sure what to do… and I accept myself anyway.
Take a slow breath.
Tapping 2: I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do
Side of the Hand: Even though I still don’t know what to do… I deeply and profound accept who I am and how I feel.
Even though I hate not knowing what to do… and I feel so confused… I open myself to clarity.
Even though I don’t know what to do right now… I choose to feel surprisingly calm and confident anyway.
Top of the Head: I still feel confused.
Eyebrow: I’m not yet clear on what to do.
Side of the Eye: What if I relaxed?
Under the Eye: What if I allowed my thoughts… to flow in the direction of relief?
Under the Nose: What if clarity is in the direction of relief?
Chin: I’m letting go of the anxiety around what to do.
Collarbone: I’m still a bit confused.
Under the Arm: I don’t know exactly what to do… and that’s okay.
Take a slow breath.
Tapping 3: I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do
Top of the Head: What if I have guidance within me?
Eyebrow: What if my guidance isn’t just in my head?
Side of the Eye: I am relaxing my breathing.
Under the Eye: I am releasing the tension in my heart.
Under the Nose: I am unknotting my gut.
Chin: I am relaxing… and allowing my inner guidance.
Collarbone: I appreciate my inner guidance… even when it isn’t totally clear.
Under the Arm: It feels so good to relax into just the next baby steps… that bring me relief.
Take a slow breath.
Check Again: I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do
Say I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do again. Notice how true it feels now.
Current intensity: _____
If another pass feels right, repeat the practice while staying attentive to what you notice in your body.
Browse the complete course
Getting Started
Pain Relief Coaching
Limiting Beliefs
- LB00 · Limiting Beliefs and Pain Relief – Introduction
- LB01 · Nothing Has Worked for Me Before
- LB02 · Nothing Will Work for Me
- LB03 · I’m a Tough Case
- LB04 · I Don’t Deserve to Get Well
- LB05 · I Am Unforgivable
- LB06 · I Deserve to be Punished
- LB07 · My Condition Is Incurable, So Why Bother Trying to Get Better?
- LB08 · It’s My Fault
- LB09 · I Don’t Expect to Get Well
- LB10 · I Don’t Understand… WHY ME?
- LB11 · I’m Defective
- LB12 · Something is Wrong with Me
- LB13 · I’m Destined to Have a Lousy Life
- LB14 · I Can’t Take Care of Myself
- LB15 · I Can’t Do Anything Right
- LB16 · I Always Sabotage Myself
- LB17 · People My Age Have Problems Like This
- LB18 · I’ll Probably Be Miserable Forever
- LB19 · I Can’t Afford What I Need to Get Well
- LB20 · No One Understands What I’m Going Through
- LB21 · I’m Not Worthy of Attention
- LB22 · I Feel Unappreciated
- LB23 · I Can’t Have This Pain/Condition and Be Happy
- LB24 · My Pain is Beyond My Control
- LB25 · I’m Not In Control of My Feelings
- LB26 · My Symptoms Can’t Be Helped
- LB27 · It’s Not Fair!
- LB28 · I’m Taking Too Long To Heal
- LB29 · I’m Too Embarrassed to Talk About It
- LB30 · I Can’t Trust My Body to Heal
- LB31 · I Need to be Fixed!
Emotional States
- ES00 · Emotional States – Introduction
- ES01 · I’m Totally Stressed Out
- ES02 · I Am So Tired & Exhausted
- ES03 · I Feel Overwhelmed
- ES04 · I Feel Hopeless & Want to Give Up
- ES05 · I Feel Anxious All the Time
- ES06 · I’m So Impatient
- ES07 · I Feel Fearful & Scared
- ES08 · I Have So Much Self-Hatred
- ES09 · I’m Ashamed of Myself
- ES10 · I Feel So Guilty
- ES11 · I’m Always So Irritable
- ES12 · I’m Very Lonely
- ES13 · I Feel Betrayed By My Body
- ES14 · I Feel Grief & Sadness
- ES15 · I Feel Embarrassed
- ES16 · They Abandoned Me
- ES17 · I Hate Being Dependent on Others
- ES18 · I Feel Rejected
- ES19 · I Feel Angry
- ES20 · I’m So Resentful
- ES21 · I Feel So Unsupported & Unappreciated
- ES22 · I’m Very Unforgiving
- ES23 · I Feel Trapped By My Body’s Diagnosis
- ES24 · I Want To Withdraw
- ES25 · I Feel Unsafe
- ES26 · I Feel Despair & So Depressed
- ES27 · I Feel Hurt
- ES28 · I Have These Internal Conflicts
- ES29 · I Feel Apprehensive About the Future
- ES30 · I Feel So Confused & Not Sure What To Do — current lesson
- ES31 · I Feel Skeptical
