50% of everything you do… isn’t as good as the other half. The first time I heard this, it was like a punch in the gut. Oh no, it’s true. Half of everything I do isn’t any good. Arrgh! And then I had to smile because…
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What do you do if your self-judgment gets in the way of tapping? It isn’t fun to do something when you are constantly feeling criticized!
...“Worried” and “angry” are emotional postures. So are peevish, cynical, critical, lonely, unmotivated, ignored, friendless, untrusting, not-good-enough, unappreciated, and unloved. Let’s also include overwhelmed, frustrated, impatient, and stressed. If a person demonstrates such a state of being on a consistent basis, it is an emotional posture. It has become how the person stands and relates to the world. EFT and our group coaching program can help you establish new, self-empowered emotional postures.
...Are you needing an uplift? A simple uplift is the type of thing that is available, I believe, to anyone anywhere. Simple says that it doesn’t have to be Big. It doesn’t have to be complicated. All the conditions don’t have to be perfect. And it can still be savored and give us a pleasurable boost.
...When you’re distressed, can you shift to neutral with confidence and ease? I didn’t realize for a long time that this is a SKILL… a skill that can be cultivated and become one of the most beautiful gifts we can give to ourselves and those around us. People talk about wanting to be Happy. They …
A typical affirmation is stated in the present tense as if what you want is already yours. For example, “I am wonderful!” Say that to yourself. “I am wonderful!” Notice what your head says right after the affirmation. What your head says AFTER the affirmation is, indeed, the REAL affirmation.
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Thriving Now – Community Center – Latest topics
- To Be Announced - Real Skills WorkshopComing Tue Dec 27 2021 at 830pm EST 1 post - 1 participant Read full topic
- Feeling Isolated... Yet Surprisingly Calm and ConfidentComing Sun Dec 12 4pm EST 1 post - 1 participant Read full topic
- Even More NakedIf you’re completely naked and wanna feel even more naked…put on a pair of shoes. 1 post - 1 participant Read full topic
- Oh Yeah! Well Take THAT!I just find this hilarious…probably because it violates pretty much all the Concepts For Thriving but also for basic survival as well. Some ‘Primitive Brain’ might do that guy some good at that moment…lol. image1245×1543 196 KB 2 posts - 1 participant Read full topic
- AgreementsAgreements Agreements help us navigate relationships by making assumptions and expectations conscious for discussion, refinement, and mutual consent. Agreements ideally are achievable, reasonable, serve the values of all parties, and allow for exit, renegotiation, and repair where possible. People who share agreements are less likely to resent those who don’t meet their unexpressed (and sometimes […]
- Potato Masherimage730×960 61.3 KB 4 posts - 3 participants Read full topic
- When did I become so cold?“ I’m insane Well, I can feel it in my bones Coursing through my veins When did I become so cold? For goodness’ sakes Where is my self control? If home is where my heart is Then my heart has lost all hope” I’m not a Vampire - Falling in reverse Lyrics are like poems […]
- A Beautiful Moment In Time1 post - 1 participant Read full topic
- Telling The TruthI posted something else a while back by this gentleman who lives in my town, Wes Geitz. He’s a very interesting man. He’s an EFT’er and a tracker and wilderness survival/thrival person trained by northern Canadian indigenous peoples. He is known as ‘Wind Walker’ by them. I’ve seen him several times in years past for […]
- 201 Year Old Monk Found!I found this on Facebook!! Incredible! A Tibetan monk has been discovered in the mountains of Nepal. He is considered the oldest person in the world at 201 years old. He is in a state of deep trance or meditation called “takatet”. When he was first discovered in a mountain cave they thought he was […]
- Stop feeling!I saw this video in another EFT email I got. It brings up feelings about when I’d go to church and felt so anxious. I told one of the minister’s helpers and she said, “Everything’s in Divine Order”, which didn’t help me one bit. They would give me some positive thinking BS, and not acknowledge […]
- ContrastContrast Contrast is a tool for helping us gain clarity about what we do want through being aware of what we do not want. Contrast refines our preferences, whether the contrast is painful and radically contrary to our desire or “just a bit different” than what we seek. “Contrast” as part of “compare and contrast” […]
- Write Your Own Headlineimage443×960 83 KB 1 post - 1 participant Read full topic
- The step into the unforgiving real worldThis week marks the final week of my internship, and would also like to bundle my experience to write about the end of my hostel stay as well (which ended during the end of October). To sum it all up, all I can say is that the world is not as forgiving as I once […]
- CirclingCircling Circling invites us to imagine those we’re engaging with to be in the geometry of a circle, each with a place and role and unique position. Circling brings an attitude of inclusion (the circle can expand to fit more participants) and of co-creating in connection with one another (everyone can see everyone else) without […]
- Come Closer! Go Away!image768×960 61 KB This is the meme that I woke up to on FB this morning. It’s very apropos to what I’m currently involved with by me inviting my friend Dave back into my life as I discussed in yesterday’s Tapping Circle. This morning I was thinking to myself “It’s not reasonable (or sustainable as […]
- DevotionDevotion Devotion combines freedom alongside love, loyalty, and enthusiasm for people and projects that matter to us. Devotion appeals to the heart that needs freedom to choose (and choose again) while including the intention of a long-term, resilient engagement. Freed from obligations that bind us and demand from us, devotional co-creating becomes lighter, safer, and […]
- Past Tense of William Shakespeare2 posts - 2 participants Read full topic
- ComfortComfort Comfort is an essential need that allows the human body and mind to calm and replenish. Humans are designed to seek safety and comfort to restore well-being so that we can engage again with what matters. When comfort is understood as a state for safe replenishment, we build resilience for taking inspired actions that […]
- AwarenessAwareness Awareness is an intentional focus on all that can be seen, felt, sensed, and intuited in the external world around us, the internal world inside us, and the energized spiritual world the infuses and inspires us. Awareness gives us information to help us survive. Expanded awareness gives us inspiration and possibilities to help us […]