A free, self-paced course with Rick Wilkes and Cathy Vartuli
Take the Parking Brake Off Your Life
When part of you wants to move and another part applies the brakes, more pressure is rarely the answer. This course helps you understand the protection beneath resistance and build a more cooperative relationship with your Primitive Brain.

There Is Nothing Wrong With You
The Primitive Brain developed to keep you alive, connected, and alert to danger. It can remain organized around an old experience long after the original threat has passed. Willpower may override that alarm briefly, but it often leaves people exhausted and ashamed.
Protection Can Look Like Resistance
Procrastination, fogginess, perfectionism, shutdown, self-sabotage, or a draining inner tug-of-war may be attempts to prevent rejection, disappointment, danger, or loss.
Cooperation Creates More Energy
When the protective system feels included, present-day choices become easier to sense and act on. The aim is not to eliminate the Primitive Brain. It is to help it update, recover, and become an ally.
A Five-Step Way to Work With Your System
- Ground: orient to the present and include the body.
- Appreciate: acknowledge effort, care, and protective intelligence.
- Reframe: understand why an earlier response once made sense.
- Upgrade: invite a more present-day job, response, or choice.
- Integrate: notice and strengthen the ways the new relationship appears in life.
These are not steps to perform perfectly. Return to grounding whenever you need to, and let believable baby steps teach the system through experience.
A Deep Course With Room to Move at Your Pace
The six modules combine concise teaching videos, focused tapping and coaching audios, guided meditations, reflection forms, and extensive Q&A sessions. The bonus library applies the work to purpose, sleep, relationships, health, money, business, and rapid change.
- Module 1: engage the Primitive Brain and soften the inner tug-of-war.
- Module 2: build present-day safety without pretending everything is safe.
- Module 3: take believable steps through disappointment, loss, and avoidance.
- Module 4: meet shame, guilt, anger, and uniqueness with more capacity.
- Module 5: work with fight, flight, freeze, shock, and specific events.
- Module 6: move through frozen fear, rejection, boundaries, perfectionism, and integration.
You do not have to consume every recording. Follow the sequence when you want the full arc, or return to one specific lesson when something becomes active.
The Complete Reprogram Your Primitive Brain Course
Getting Started
Module 1 — Engaging the Primitive Brain
- 10-01 · Engaging the Primitive Brain
- 10-02 · It Won't Work For Me…
- 10-03 · I Hate My Primitive Brain
- 10-04 · Taking the Parking Brake Off
- 10-05 · Releasing the Internal Tug-o-War
- 10-06 · Forgiveness and Small Steps
- 10-07 · Guided Meditation #1 – 5 Senses
- 10-08 · Self-Reflection Homework – Module 1
- 10-09 · Q & A + Tapping Sessions – Module 1
Module 2 — Safety and the Primitive Brain
- 20-01 · Safety and the Primitive Brain
- 20-02 · The Prime Directive
- 20-03 · Outside-In Reprogramming
- 20-04 · I Don't Feel Safe
- 20-05 · I Don't Know What Safe Feels Like
- 20-06 · Is It Safe to Feel Safe?
- 20-07 · Notice the Safety Around You
- 20-08 · Guided Meditation #2 – Alert Level Adjustments
- 20-09 · Self-Reflection Homework – Module 2
- 20-10 · Q & A + Tapping Sessions – Module 2
Module 3 — Taking Steps
- 30-01 · Taking Steps
- 30-02 · Perfect Baby Steps
- 30-03 · Disappointment
- 30-04 · Fear of Loss
- 30-05 · Avoidance and Clarity
- 30-06 · Looking for the YES
- 30-07 · Training the Brain to WIN
- 30-08 · Who Will I Be?
- 30-09 · Guided Meditation #3 – Releasing Disappointment and Loss
- 30-10 · Self-Reflection Homework – Module 3
- 30-11 · Q & A + Tapping Sessions – Module 3
Module 4 — The Heavier Emotions
- 40-01 · The Heavier Emotions
- 40-02 · Why Look at Heavy Emotions?
- 40-03 · Letting Go: Feeling, Honoring, and Releasing
- 40-04 · Shame and Guilt
- 40-05 · Shame: I Feel So Wrong
- 40-06 · Anger: The Power Rising
- 40-07 · My Unique Self
- 40-08 · Guided Meditation #4 – Sending Soothing
- 40-09 · Self-Reflection Homework – Module 4
- 40-10 · Q & A + Tapping Sessions – Module 4
Module 5 — Primitive Brain Reactions
- 50-01 · Primitive Brain Reactions
- 50-02 · Fight, Flight, Freeze
- 50-03 · Inner Tapping
- 50-04 · Specific Events
- 50-05 · Shock
- 50-06 · The Big Why
- 50-07 · Re-Empowering the Primitive Brain
- 50-08 · Guided Meditation #5 – Filling Your Tank
- 50-09 · Self-Reflection Homework – Module 5
- 50-10 · Q & A + Tapping Sessions – Module 5
Module 6 — Breaking Through and Moving Forward
- 60-01 · Breaking Through and Moving Forward
- 60-02 · Breaking Through the Frozen Fear
- 60-03 · Separating Your Emotions
- 60-04 · Continuing to Show Up
- 60-05 · Rejection and Acceptance
- 60-06 · Negative Thoughts
- 60-07 · Boundaries
- 60-08 · I Need to Be Perfect… Or Else
- 60-09 · Pulling It All Together
- 60-10 · Guided Meditation #6 – The Tree, the Beach, and the Fruit
- 60-11 · Self-Reflection Homework – Module 6
- 60-12 · Q & A + Tapping Sessions – Module 6
Bonuses for Your Primitive Brain
- 90-01 · Finding Your Why
- 90-02 · Keep Going with Confidence
- 90-03 · Creating a Clearing for New Beginnings
- 90-04 · When You Change Really Fast
- 90-05 · Deep, Restful Sleep – 5 Tapping Scripts
- 90-06 · Dealing With Other People’s Primitive Brains
- 90-07 · Blocks to Growing Your Business
- 90-08 · Self-Sabotage in Love & Relationships
- 90-09 · Self-Sabotage in Health & Well-Being
- 90-10 · Self-Sabotage in Money & Finances
- 90-11 · Financial Trauma Series
- 90-12 · EFT Master Carol Look on Procrastination and The Primitive Brain
- 90-13 · Sex & Relationships Expert Reid Mihalko on Relationships and The Primitive Brain
