Sex, Love, & Relationships
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When You Care More—or Less—Than They Do
Relationships are not symmetrical every day. One person may want more contact, commitment, reassurance, conversation, touch, or change than the other. The difference can quickly become a referendum on love. Naming the asymmetry is kinder than disguising it with pursuit, withdrawal, or promises no one can sustain. What Changes When We Listen More Closely Different…
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Collaboration With Clear Agreements and Clean Endings
Good collaboration can create more imagination, courage, reach, and joy than either person could generate alone. It also brings us close enough for hidden expectations to matter. We may assume that a caring or intuitive partner should know what we want. We may avoid discussing money, credit, workload, decisions, or endings because naming those things…
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Collaboration and Co-Creation
Are you happiest when your heart is engaged with what you’re doing? Do you feel satisfied and fulfilled when you love the people you work with and care about what you’re creating in the world? For people like us, we want to bring our hearts into collaborative work. Sure, we also want to to be…
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Let Self-Expression Filter for Resonant People
Trying to become attractive to everyone creates an impossible assignment. Every room has different rules, and every person has different preferences. We can spend a lifetime adjusting ourselves and still never feel truly known. Self-expression reverses the search. Instead of asking, “How do I become what they want?” we ask, “What do I genuinely offer,…
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Grief Over Losing a Loved One
I just heard that someone I cared about passed away. She wasn’t someone I was close to day-to-day. In fact I hadn’t seen her in a couple years. But she was very kind to me when I was a confused and lonely teenager, and I liked knowing she was in the world.
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She Intimidates Me!
Do you ever feel intimidated? Even if the other person isn’t meaning to, isn’t doing anything to dominate or judge, we can sometimes feel intimidated and overwhelmed.
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Tapping to Soothe Grief When A Parent Dies
I recently lost two parents. I knew it was coming but I didn’t expect it to hurt so much or the grief, sadness, and loneliness to last so long. I feel like nothing will ever be the same again. –Bobbi We don’t know what your beliefs are, so please take what feels right to you?…