Author: Cathy Vartuli

  • Power Struggle At Work

    I have a conflict with a coworker. He isn’t my boss, but he is “up the food chain”. I get really nervous around him and feel insecure. What can I do?

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  • Guilt About Having A Dream Job AND Making Lots of Money

    I have an inner conflict regarding my job. I love what I do. That’s part of the problem! I worry that it isn’t important enough and feel guilty. Shouldn’t I be in Africa saving kids or helping people in some way? I feel fulfilled and happy but rather guilty. I’d like to get that out…

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  • Everything Will Be PERFECT If I Just Lose Weight!

    Listen Download MP3 We often ask people what they feel needs to change so they can feel free… About 50% of them include weight loss , being slender or thin, in their answer. But unless you change the emotions, you can lose all the weight you want and still be just as stuck and unhappy…

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  • I Don’t Feel Like I Belong

    What I am really missing in my life right now is the feeling of belonging. Even with close friends I’ve known for years, I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone. Looking back, I can see that I have felt this way as long as I remember. Any suggestions?

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  • Borrowing Trouble From The Future

    – Anticipating the future until we suck the joy out of now – Can’t let this go – Doing this so I’m not disappointed – Fearing I’ll have to face my phobia – Always over preparing for the future

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  • My Boyfriend Stares at Other Women!

    My boyfriend stares at other women whenever we go out. It really gnaws at me – I barely look twice at other guys. Can I tap for that?

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  • Tapping On The Negative… Moving Towards The Positive

    I don’t have a problem coming up with negative statements to tap on, but I have trouble moving to the positive. What do I do? And if I focus on the negative, will I draw lots of negative things to me? –Debbie It’s ok to stay on the negative as long as you feel that…

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