Sex, Love, & Relationships
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When We’re Blind To Love
For many of us, having love in our life is the whipped cream on top of … well… just about anything. It makes life delicious! If we grew up not feeling loved or understood or as connected as we wanted, we may have blocks to allowing warm, loving connection into our lives now. We may…
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Allowing Love
– All on my own – Second hand love – Love from others isn’t safe – Crust around my heart, protecting me
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Allowing Love
People ask all the time, how can I tap on attracting more love? Love is so important to a beautiful life, yet for many of us it feels elusive and hard to find.
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Money and Romantic Relationships: Trust, Independence, and Shared Dreams
Money in partnership can represent safety, commitment, freedom, power, rescue, or proof that two people share a future. Disagreement about an amount may actually be disagreement about whose dream matters and whether either person is allowed to remain independent. The goal is not perfect financial sameness. It is enough clarity that money does not have…
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Forgiveness For Myself and Others
– Reperception of life rather than an act of forgiveness. – Ex was a cowardly jerk. – Screwed up my life. – All my fault!
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Asking, Lending, and Setting Money Boundaries
Money between people carries more than an amount. A request may evoke shame. A loan may become proof of love. A cancellation policy may feel cruel. A gift may include expectations nobody says aloud. Clear boundaries do not remove emotion, but they keep emotion from silently rewriting the agreement. A Request Must Permit No Asking…
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I’m Sorry, So Sorry!
– Regret and embarrassment – I hurt him. – I’m sorry for everything! – Feel bad about the way I treated my son.