Sex, Love, & Relationships
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My Boyfriend Stares at Other Women!
My boyfriend stares at other women whenever we go out. It really gnaws at me – I barely look twice at other guys. Can I tap for that?
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When Family Discomfort Makes Your Boundary Feel Wrong
You decide to set a reasonable limit. Before you even say it, your chest tightens, your skin crawls, and you can almost feel the other person’s upset inside your own body. The intensity can make the boundary seem cruel or mistaken. Yet some of what you are feeling may not be guidance about the boundary.…
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How Do I Stay Grounded When My Ex is a Nut?!
Dealing with my ex-wife is a nightmare (I think she’s a narcissist). I never know if she’s going to be nice or emotionally and verbally attack me in front of our kids. I’ve tried being nice, but I never know what to expect. I want to handle this better and show my kids a better…
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Tips and Tapping to Reduce Social Anxiety in Empathetic People
I’m struggling with social anxiety. I’m lonely, but being around people is stressful and tiring. I’m very empathetic and the feelings I get from others are overwhelming. What can I do to feel better and relax around people? –Fay When you feel other people’s stuff strongly, it certainly can be stressful. The constant flow of…
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Tapping When Being Bullied At Work
I could use some help with being bullied at work. I have done some tapping, and that gave me the courage to bring the problem to the attention of my boss. I know I’m worthy of respect, but some of my co-workers have been ganging up on me and freezing me out. I want to…
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Taking Care of Yourself Around Toxic Family
It’s hard when family or friends feel the need for us to conform to a pattern that we spent years breaking out of! They may become defensive or verbally abusive if we don’t meet their expectations. They may do everything they can to push us back into that old pattern, ignoring all the changes we’ve…
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Romance vs. Freedom
I really want to attract a romantic partner, and I’ve done a lot of work on this. I enjoy my freedom and my selfish lifestyle too much, which is getting in the way of meeting someone special. How do I resolve this conflict? – Lily Why do you believe that you have to give up…