Sex, Love, & Relationships
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I Feel Betrayed
– By my body, my inner child, EFT, myself, Abraham. – What was the expectation? – How much do I expect people to betray me?
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I Take on Too Much Responsibility
– I’ve taken care of everyone since I was a kid – I MUST make them happy – I have to make up for all that time – I have to save them, no one else will – My parents needed me to be in charge
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When Responsibility Becomes the Price of Love
Being useful can become a way to secure belonging. You solve, organize, pay, anticipate, and carry more than your share. Other people may appreciate it, but underneath is a frightening bargain: if I stop being responsible for everyone, will anyone still need or love me? Responsibility is a strength. It becomes costly when it is…
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Their Judgements are Stopping Me!
– What a stupid idiot – Constant judgement from Mom – Its all my fault – Need to be brave no matter what – My very existance was judged
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Oh Dad, How Could You…?
– Wanting to bond with Dad – Ignoring my needs – Anger at dad for abuse – He threatened her – Looking for faults
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Oh The Time I’ve Lost – These Old Regrets
– I cheated on my boyfriend – I lost all that time with their intolerance of the learning process – “Don’t abondon me” energy
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I’m Too Needy
– I need love and affection – If anyone loves me, there must be something wrong with them – I need to not appear needy – I’ve been used by those who were needy