Author: Cathy Vartuli
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Just For A Moment…
Just for a moment… could you let yourself Be? People are focused on Doing. And with all the pressure to do the right thing, feel the right thing, think the right thing… it’s easy to lose ourselves. People become “shoulds” and “musts,” trying to meet the unvoiced expectations of those around them. We become actors…
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Little Things to Help You Feel Loved
Ever notice how changing small things can feel like a bother? Too much work for the reward? Silly example… Whenever I zoom, I put on a bit of makeup. I think the definition makes understanding emotions on video easier. For years I’ve had a scratchy brush to put on blush. Every time I notice the…
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Tuning Into Your Inner Courage and Strength
I’ve spent a lot of my life running and doing 3 things at once. It helped distract me from all my emotions. Since I’ve started tapping, I’ve been able to slow down and enjoy life more. The problem is, if I get too quiet, this strong fear shows up. I’ve been working through that, and…
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It’s Not Really Mine Anyway… Letting In Abundance
Do you let yourself “own” your abundance? Most of us would immediately say, “Yes, of course. I just want more!” But if you dig a little deeper, you may find some old patterns and fears lurking in the shadows, blocking your enjoyment and how much you let in. Do you feel like your money is…
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Did You Bring Enough For Everyone? Blocks to Abundance From Kindergarten
Are you blocking or hiding abundance because of old rules? One of the phrases many of us heard when we were young was “Did you bring enough for everyone?” It could have been candy, gum, a special toy, or a fun comic book. It didn’t matter… that was the catch phrase a lot of teachers…
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Letting Joy Into Your Holiday
The holidays are supposed to be full of laughter and joy, aren’t they? I remember the promise of a glittering tree, brightly wrapped packages, warm cookies baking. As children, we were willing to dream and enjoy the wonder-filled moments of the season. As adults, we’ve been conditioned to put ourselves last. To check off the…
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Tapping To Release The Pain of Betrayal and Abandonment
My therapist just told me he is no longer doing private sessions. I feel devastated and abandoned. I know there are other therapists, but I trusted him and now he’s not there anymore. I feel betrayed, like there’s no place else to go. —Kim Cathy answers: I do know how that feels, Kim. I’m sorry.…