Listen (18:46) or Download MP3 Tap Talk Radio #31 – When You Are Running Late PDF Transcript It’s very stressful to run late. No matter what the reason, when we’re late, there is a tendency to feel bad about ourselves, beat ourselves up, and notice everything else that is going wrong. Not only does this

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When we want something and don’t have it, our brain can use that as evidence that we’re not good enough…that we’re a failure. Yet, intelligent, warm, creative people tend to have a lot of desires! We can think up new stuff and new experiences really easily. Hourly, even! So if part of our psyche has linked “Not yet? We’ve failed!” …we end up with lots of ‘evidence’ that we lack manifestation power.

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– Disconnection
– Mouth trauma
– Holding onto trauma in house
– I’m inadequate for this task
– Medical trauma

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– “Good” and “bad” expectations.
– Unrealistic expecations
– Expectations of self and body
– Wanted them to notice what I’d done
– Pain, expected my body to heal
– It always comes back!

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– Fear of being caught being incompetent
– Terrified that something bad will happen if I make the wrong decision
– Horrible consequences in the past
– Doubt my ability to take a second step.

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– I don’t trust myself
– I don’t trust anyone to love me
– I’m not good enough, I don’t trust people (or myself) to value me
– I don’t trust myself to take care of myself

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– I don’t know what’s going to happen.
– Worst thing in the world.
– Afraid of freezing again.
– Don’t upset her!

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– Regret and embarrassment
– I hurt him.
– I’m sorry for everything!
– Feel bad about the way I treated my son.

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– Reperception of life rather than an act of forgiveness.
– Ex was a cowardly jerk.
– Screwed up my life.
– All my fault!

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– Giving up magical thinking
– Letting go means admitting I made a mistake
– Seeing self as a stronger person
– I’m doing all the work

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