Sex, Love, & Relationships
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Impatience – I’m So Impatient
Abundance, Money, & Thriving BusinessBody Vitality, Safety, & Self-ImageEmotional StatesPain ReliefSex, Love, & RelationshipsI’m So Impatient with my clients, why won’t the decide? I am so frustrated with myself, I can’t be wrong and be loved. Heal, Damn it! My body’s confused.
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Loneliness – I’m Very Lonely
I don’t deserve connection… I don’t belong… They never really accepted me and that hurts… I hate to be alone!
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I Am Not Wanted
I am not wanted… My needs are ignored… I want to be chased… Not wanted as a baby… I don’t want myself the way I am.
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When Your Success Feels Like It Will Hurt Someone Else
Success can feel disloyal when people you love are suffering. Celebration may be interpreted as bragging, abandonment, or proof that you no longer understand them. A family may even grant status to the person who suffers most, making relief feel like leaving the group. The protective response is simple: dim the success before anyone else…
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I Have To Be Special To Get What I Want
– I am such a bitch, I can never get what I want. – I *know* I Have to be special to get what I want. – I’m powerless. – If I get something good, bad things will happen.
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Ashamed – I Am Ashamed of Myself
Shame: Something that is wrong about who I am… Guilt: Something wrong that I did… Should have… Jealousy and anger… I was so mean.
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I Hate Being Dependent on Others: A Guide to Healthy Interdependence
We all depend on (rely on) others for support. The angst comes from a few sources: 1) If someone gives me something, I owe them or they control me. (other definitions of dependent). 2) A belief in lack- if I rely on this, and it goes away, I won’t be able to stand it! 3)…