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Recent posts from Thriving Now.
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If I Have Money, How Will I Know Who Truly Loves Me?
Money can create options, comfort, generosity, and power. It can also awaken a painful question: If I have more, will people want me—or access to what I have? One way to avoid that uncertainty is to avoid having enough to attract requests. Another is to give quickly, pay for everything, or keep rescuing so we…
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I Need to Be Fixed: Feeling Okay Enough to Connect
I need to be fixed to be ok around people… I feel clueless on how to act… I disconnect from people… I have to quit smoking to be around people… If I’m not good enough, they might leave… I need to fix my weight!
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When Having Money Feels Spiritually or Emotionally Unsafe
Some people do not struggle only to earn money. They struggle to let money remain. A balance appears, and the body becomes restless. Spend it before someone takes it. Give it away before someone asks. Use it now because it never lasts. Staying close to the edge can feel stressful, but accumulating money may feel…
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I Can’t Lose Weight
Even if we have shifted a lot of old beliefs, this one may be pretty ingrained, blocking our movement forward. I have tried everything, why would this time be different? I don’t want to hope and fail again. I feel stupid and it hurts.
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Unappreciated – I Feel Unappreciated
I expected to be appreciated! I have to earn appreciation… Why can’t they see all of me? I need their approval… I have to be a good girl… Not sure I deserve appreciation…
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Too Far Behind to Begin: Rebuilding Financial Momentum
“I should have started years ago” can turn a financial gap into a verdict about your life. The savings are not where you hoped. The debt, unfinished paperwork, job search, or business project looks like a mountain. Looking closely seems dangerous because it might confirm just how far behind you are. Avoidance then protects you…
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It’s Not Fair!
I want to be right… I don’t know what to do about it… This is not how it should be!
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Your Thriving Business – 2009-01-07
Sometimes I work too hard… Do I have to do it all alone? Where’s my stuff? Promoting yourself… A lot of my work has no tangible product.
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When Your Finances Feel Too Overwhelming to Face
Financial overwhelm can make a practical problem feel impossible to enter. There may be bills to organize, taxes to prepare, savings to begin, choices to make, and a business or household that needs attention. Yet the hardest moment can be the one before we look. The mind says, “I need a complete plan.” The body…
