If your life were a movie, would you want to watch it? How would you cast the main characters in your movie if you had more choice? Would you change some of the roles they play or the way they interact with you? Most humans would not enthusiastically say “Yes! Keep it just like it is!” […]
When you look back at your life… What kind of difference do you want to leave behind? We speak to people everyday who want to make a difference in the world. Who want to leave the campsite better than they found it (to use a phrase our good friend Reid Mihalko quotes often). And we […]
What do ALL MEN have in common? Consider for a moment all the people who label themselves men. Tall short, beefy lean, playful serious, emotional stoic, flexible rigid, devoted wild, wise fool. Is there something that all men have at their core… that is an aspect you must deal with in any relationship or interaction […]
You show up for these kinds of messages because you want to feel better… and make a difference to people you care about. I know you’re that kind of person. And when you feel good about yourself, have you noticed you have more energy to be kind, focused, and get things done that matter? What if […]
Cathy and I are not typical… and so what? You are not typical, either. Have you ever rolled your eyes at some of the notions about “what it takes” to have awesome relationships? For me, I needed a way of seeing love as co-creating a life that is thriving, delicious, and an eco-system that nourishes […]
Books! They can change your life! And “too many” books can weigh down your energy and clog you up. (The “too many” is by YOUR definition, not anyone else’s. If they give you joy, perfect. If you feel overwhelmed or weighed down, that would be the emotional clue we’re talking about here.) Right now, we’re going […]
I didn’t really think I had a clutter problem.
Of course, there was THAT pile… that felt strangely overwhelming.
Yeah, and the closet… that made my whole home feel less comfortable every time I went into it.
If we define “clutter” as anything that feels out of place, that drains our energy, or that is painful to hold onto yet even more painful to let go of… then yes, I had clutter. Do you?
I’m going to recommend that you stop looking at clutter as just “stuff.” Instead, observe its effect on you emotionally. What does it do to your vibration?