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  • Create Before Your Work Feels Worthy

    Abundance, Money, & Thriving Business

    Creativity can feel wonderfully abundant until we consider expressing it where someone else might see. Then the work seems too ordinary, too vulnerable, too unskilled, or insufficiently worthy of the space it would occupy. Worthiness is a poor prerequisite for creating because the sense of worth often grows through contact with the process. We make,…

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  • When You Feel Stuck, Look for the Protection

    Emotional States

    Feeling stuck is frustrating because the conscious mind can often see exactly what would help. We know the call to make, the page to write, the boundary to set, or the practical task to complete. Yet another part of us will not move. We can call that laziness or self-sabotage. We can push harder. Or…

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  • 2017 Circle Sessions

    Emotional StatesSession Recordings
    2017 Circle Sessions

    2017 Circle Session Recordings

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  • Grounded Does Not Always Mean Still

    Emotional States

    Grounding is often pictured as perfect stillness: feet flat, slow breath, quiet mind. That can be useful. It can also become another standard we fail when something intense is happening. Being grounded means having enough contact with present reality and ourselves to choose a useful response. Sometimes that response is stillness. Sometimes it is movement,…

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  • Be Real With the Person Who Is Actually in Front of You

    Sex, Love, & Relationships

    Social anxiety can turn relating into rapid adaptation. We enter a room, sense the local style, and start mimicking it so we will fit. We speak differently, hide interests, and reduce ourselves to whatever seems least risky. At the same time, we reduce other people to categories: age, status, attractiveness, politics, profession, body, or social…

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  • Anger and Gratitude Can Both Be True

    Sex, Love, & Relationships

    A relationship may contain real generosity and real harm. The mind often demands one verdict: grateful or angry, loyal or honest, loving or finished. Emotional freedom expands the frame. We can appreciate what was given, grieve what was absent, and remain angry about what violated us without forcing one truth to erase another. What Changes…

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  • Gratitude Does Not Require Erasing the Gap

    Emotional States

    Gratitude can feel difficult when the mind immediately adds “yes, but.” Yes, something went well, but it should have been better. Yes, someone appreciated us, but they do not know the whole story. Yes, we handled a hard situation, but a more developed person would not have struggled. The gap may be real. Gratitude does…

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