I expected to be appreciated! I have to earn appreciation… Why can’t they see all of me? I need their approval… I have to be a good girl… Not sure I deserve appreciation…

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In this team call we cover a daughter coming to visit with her husband, the evolution of the relationship, and how we might break down the boxes that tie us to certain stressful beliefs about “how it must be.”

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If we CALL it betrayal because it HURTS like betrayal, that is what matters. In this session I explore with several team members how betrayal feels in the body, and offer some options for “redefining” trust so that the feeling of betrayal is far less likely to ever be experienced.

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It can come from others, or we can hear it inside our own heads (often in a way that REMINDS us of how others used to talk to us). In this session, I cover the benefits of using EFT to remove the weapons of emotional destruction from the hands of those around us. When we become calm and confident in the face of criticism, what the criticism can FEEL like is closer to an absurdity (“You’re a purple people eater”) than something that makes us want to curl up into a ball.

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Grief is intertwined with our spiritual beliefs and knowings. So, no discussion of grief can take place without that context being present. As you listen to this team call on grief and loss, it is my hope that the message of the eternalness of Who We Really Are comes through in a way that feels good to you, that provides some measure of relief during times of grief.

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Once we get down to the hurt, the guilt and shame, significant progress can be made. Those feelings that we shouldn’t exist, that we’re not good enough, that we ARE wrong (shame) or that we’ve done wrong (guilt)… these get so strongly ingrained on an energetic level that affects the whole organism.

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A battle, by definition, involves opposing forces. We engage in battle, and by making that choice, by the Law of Attraction we assure ourselves of one thing: what we oppose, even from a righteous heart, will become bigger, and bigger, and bigger in our reality.

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When we feel jealousy (fearful or wary of being supplanted, or of losing affection or position) or envy (a feeling of discontentment and resentment aroused by desire for the possessions or qualities of another), we can use EFT on the body sensations and use re-perceiving to empower ourselves.

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Deb has multiple sclerosis and doesn’t always know when she’s not feeling well. She had some downtime after sessions we had the week before. In this session I explore how to listen and respect her body’s signals so that it doesn’t take a “10” pain level for her to take the time and rest to renew her body.

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How often after we’ve been with someone for awhile, and the love-induced stupor starts to fade, we notice not only the person’s imperfections but our own fears and doubts become louder and Louder and LOUDER. We start beating the drum of fear and discontent. It is no wonder that the “music” of the relationship starts to show discord.

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