Criticize: Find fault, judge, denounce. Self criticism vs external. Want to feel peaceful, powerful, forgiven, acceptable. Tapping on Inner Critic. Everyone must love me so they won’t hurt me. I have to be perfect to be acceptable!

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If I felt safe… People might be jealous. I wouldn’t be alert enough. I will attract dangerous people or things. Something terrible will happen. I’m not allowed to feel safe, I don’t deserve it.

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I deserve to be punished. I really did a bad thing. Is it a crime to resist punishment? Feeling angry (isn’t wrong to be angry?) Was I being punished? Self forgiveness.

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Shame: Something that is wrong about who I am… Guilt: Something wrong that I did… Should have… Jealousy and anger… I was so mean.

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Being visible means different things to different people. This fear can hold us back in business, public speaking, romantic relationships, any social activity. When we feel we need to hide, there is generally a sense of fear or shame (or both).

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I need to be fixed to be ok around people… I feel clueless on how to act… I disconnect from people… I have to quit smoking to be around people… If I’m not good enough, they might leave… I need to fix my weight!

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Even if we have shifted a lot of old beliefs, this one may be pretty ingrained, blocking our movement forward. I have tried everything, why would this time be different? I don’t want to hope and fail again. I feel stupid and it hurts.

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We’ve been talking about listening to your body and being open to its guidance. Many of us have trouble tuning into specifics. What does that ache in my knee mean? What is that itchy rash trying to tell me? Why is my back screaming at me again??!

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(FREE Audio) This is the outline and recording for the call Pro-Active Approach to Safety which is a part of our Body Vitality Workshop as we focus on Body Safety with co-hosts Rick Wilkes and Cathy Vartuli. We are joined on the call by Vivian Cannataro, EFT expert from Toronto who specializes in using EFT to help people pro-actively create safer and safer environments as well as healthier and more respectful relationships.

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