– “Good” and “bad” expectations.
– Unrealistic expecations
– Expectations of self and body
– Wanted them to notice what I’d done
– Pain, expected my body to heal
– It always comes back!
– I’ve taken care of everyone since I was a kid
– I MUST make them happy
– I have to make up for all that time
– I have to save them, no one else will
– My parents needed me to be in charge
– I need love and affection
– If anyone loves me, there must be something wrong with them
– I need to not appear needy
– I’ve been used by those who were needy
– Discussion about the gift of jealousy
– Jealous of my boyfriends vitality and confidence
– Betrayed by my friends
– Jealous of coaches who charge a lot of money
– Really want proof that I am a good person
