I’ve been making really good progress using tapping, and I just got through some tough personal issues with tapping. But I’m angry with myself right now because for the last week or so, all I want to do is play computer games and I don’t feel like tapping much at all. What’s going on?

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– Regret and embarrassment
– I hurt him.
– I’m sorry for everything!
– Feel bad about the way I treated my son.

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– I don’t know what’s going to happen.
– Worst thing in the world.
– Afraid of freezing again.
– Don’t upset her!

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by Cathy Vartuli Your heart is racing, breath is coming fast, palms are sweating. You feel scared, jumpy, and vigilant. Panic attacks, anxiety attacks… whatever you call them, they are terrifying. They are especially overwhelming because we are stuck in a fear-based feedback loop. Understanding what’s going on can give you an edge on releasing them.

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– I don’t trust myself
– I don’t trust anyone to love me
– I’m not good enough, I don’t trust people (or myself) to value me
– I don’t trust myself to take care of myself

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– Fear of being caught being incompetent
– Terrified that something bad will happen if I make the wrong decision
– Horrible consequences in the past
– Doubt my ability to take a second step.

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– “Good” and “bad” expectations.
– Unrealistic expecations
– Expectations of self and body
– Wanted them to notice what I’d done
– Pain, expected my body to heal
– It always comes back!

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– Disconnection
– Mouth trauma
– Holding onto trauma in house
– I’m inadequate for this task
– Medical trauma

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– By my body, my inner child, EFT, myself, Abraham.
– What was the expectation?
– How much do I expect people to betray me?

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We enjoy life and function better when we feel safer. No matter what you are doing… from enjoying a BBQ with friends, weeding the flowerbeds, taking a walk, or doing spring cleaning… you will feel more present and focused if you feel safe. When we feel even “a bit” threatened or nervous, there is a constant underlying tension and worry. Part of our attention is always focused on the threat. Yet for many of us, we don’t even know what the danger is! We just feel unsafe.

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