The Thriving Now Team is a well-established group coaching program with teleclasses every month where we use Energy Tapping (EFT) and other vibrational technologies to clear blocks to a living a thriving life. You can see from the topics covered in just one month’s team calls that we cover a broad range of issues. New team members have immediate access to the full library of recorded calls (over 700 hours), the team forum, and the call schedule. We’d love to have you join us!
2006-03-14 Control!
We all want to feel control because feeling in control feels GOOD! There is a sense of certainty when we feel like Master of our own Universe. And that feeling typically lasts until something outside ourselves intrudes… and convinces us that we are, alas, NOT in control.
Yet, we ARE. We are in control of the one part of our lives that determines our Life Experience… we are in control of our focus. Sure, most people do not set their intention to focus; they focus on external situations, people, and beliefs. It is like modeling your life on what you read in People magazine, the Star, and the National Enquirer and expecting to feel good.
In this dialogue between myself and Deb and Josh, we explore control and focusing our thoughts and visualizations in ways that help us feel progressively more and more relief, and eventually on better and better feelings. There is a habit, especially amongst bright, creative people to both reach TOO far energetically and fall off the mountain, or to have found a better feeling thought… like agitation and just KNOW that agitation isn’t good enough. Yet, agitation is a FAR cry from depression. When a client is agitated, we are not a far distance from pessimistic optimism, or even a bit of believing… and from a bit of believing, there can be enough evolving experiences observed that you get to a place of KNOWING. From that place of KNOWING, we have control.
I also work with Deb on quantifying the healing journey. This is cutting edge work, looking at predicting and measuring the healing journey by what vibration one is habitually emitting over the weeks and months prior. It has been my observation that people must vibrate well-being before it arrives physically. It’s egg (vibration/feeling) before chicken (manifestation in the body). I’ve not yet seen evidence to the contrary.
Attempting to Control Others Attracts More to Be Controlled… It is easy to understand how you would come to the conclusion that your path to feeling good is through influencing or controlling the behavior of others. But as you attempt to control them (through influence or coercion), you discover that not only can you not contain them – but your attention to them brings more like them into your experience. You simply cannot get to where you want to be by controlling or eliminating the unwanted.
— Abraham
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