Loneliness is hard. It can “eat into you” and make you feel sad and hopeless. Whether you’re with a long term partner you don’t connect with deeply as you’d like… or you are single and don’t want to be anymore… if you feel lonely, you probably aren’t enjoying life nearly as much as you’d like to.
Have you ever wanted to connect in a certain way, in bed… Or even flirt with someone, and the awkwardness and shyness was so big it blocked you? There is so much shame around anything sexual, even flirting and especially around sharing what people want. One of the problems of shame is that it keeps […]
Do you ever wish you were more confident and graceful when it came to flirting, inviting someone to make out, or sharing what you want and enjoy in the bedroom? Honestly, most people struggle with this! Even people who’ve been married for decades. If you feel emotional or scared about this topic, you are not […]
What do ALL MEN have in common? Consider for a moment all the people who label themselves men. Tall short, beefy lean, playful serious, emotional stoic, flexible rigid, devoted wild, wise fool. Is there something that all men have at their core… that is an aspect you must deal with in any relationship or interaction […]
Cathy and I are not typical… and so what? You are not typical, either. Have you ever rolled your eyes at some of the notions about “what it takes” to have awesome relationships? For me, I needed a way of seeing love as co-creating a life that is thriving, delicious, and an eco-system that nourishes […]
Do you feel like love is confusing? Both finding it and being with it? Do you sometimes feel like you have to be someone else to be lovable? Honestly, I’m a pretty smart woman, and I function really well in a lot of areas. And sometimes loving someone (or not finding romantic love) can be […]
Are you tired of watching other people connect and build relationships while you hold yourself back? I know I was. Time after time, I’d see people joke, laugh, and feel rejuvenated by the friendships and love they built. I felt so awkward. So out of place. I tried so hard, but I never seemed to […]