2009-05 Team Call Recordings

2009-05-02 Open Call
- Pain around Dad passing, needing to help him
- Freezing to avoid dissapointment
- Following body sensations to emotions
- Feeling more grounded
- Blocks to trusting

2009-05-03 Body Image Study Group
- I need to be perfect to feel ok about myself
- It’s not safe to feel too happy
- Can’t trust anyone, it’s not safe
- Nice things will be taken away
- Is it safe to be a powerful, beautiful woman?

2009-05-05 I Am Unforgivable
- Where did you learn this? What made you decide this?
- Why are the things we’ve done so much more heinous than what others do? At what point do we let ourselves off the hook?
- How much punishment do we need to inflict before we can forgive ourselves?
- How will we know when we can forgive ourselves?
- What would we need to do to be forgiven?
- Many people hold onto the belief out of fear.
- Some people think that if they forgive themselves, they will repeat the same mistakes.
- Even if someone else doesn’t want to forgive us, we can forgive ourselves. (and control over our feelings and actions).

2009-05-06 Open Call
- Resentment about the meeting I just had
- Anger – I want things to be FAIR!
- Asking the primitive brain
- Stuck in my relationship with my sister
- Hypersensitivity to car noises
- What about this makes me irritated?

2009-05-09 Mother’s Day Issues
- My Mother was unavailible, unable to connect, and afraid of being needed. That made me feel lonely and disconnected, and I want to feel competent and loving.
- I feel like I’m always fighting her, and that makes me angry. I want to feel more peaceful and less resistant.
- Who would I be if I wasn’t fighting her?
- She was shut off and could not hear me. That feels sad. I want to feel more connected and know who she was.

2009-05-10 Financial Abundance Study Group
- Bad things are going to happen, aren’t they?
- I’m not good enough to have what I want.
- Reconnecting to source.
- Feel like a loser.
- Redefining your goals.

2009-05-11 Open Call
- Mom said I was a “little bitch”
- It’s not safe to express myself
- Anger and uncertainty at work
- Trusting the flow and setting boundaries
- Please don’t make me!
- Family inheritance, who would I be without it?

2009-05-17 Body Image Study Group
- I have to keep busy so I don’t feel lonely.
- Mom said I was awkward and aloof.
- Changing how I see myself.
- Always being left out, rejected.
- Feeling of not belonging.

2009-05-21 Open Call
- Scared inner child causing distress, helped her find love and peace.
- Wanting to lose weight, primitive brain in the way, moving to being safe and strong.
- Does family history make it impossible for me to be healthy?
- Trouble sleeping.
- Is it Guidance knocking on the door at 3am?
- Inner conflict, afraid to move forward, not happy where I am.
- Playing the “what if” game, both negative and positive.

2009-05-23 I Feel Apprehensive About the Future
- Generally two time aspects to this.
- We genuinely can’t control the future.
- We are often afraid because:
  – Bad things have happened in the past, so we expect bad things to happen (and attract them).
  – We don’t trust ourselves to deal with what occurs, good or bad.
  – We either don’t know or doubt our ability to create abundance and safety
- When we are fearful or in pain, it’s harder to be curious and playful.

2009-05-24 Financial Abundance Study Group
- I feel like she called me an irresponsible mother!
- Moving toward calm acceptance.
- Mom’s judgement in my head.
- My money is my own, and I get to decide.
- Lack of freedom, afraid to make the wrong decision.
- I am always left alone, forgotten.

2009-05-26 Open Call
- Addicted to the STRUGGLE
- Contrast that gives clarity
- The “BE” Team
- Car noises… worse
- What is keeping me from moving to a better place?

2009-05-27 Open Call
- Poor digestion: gassy, bloated WORRY in my belly
- The RELATIONSHIP Thing
- Giving and Receiving… am I really comfortable receiving?
- She insulted me
- Anger and Rage at Work
- Needy… I hate that.

2009-05-30 I’m Afraid to be Visible
- Primitive brain- hide and no one will hurt you.
- May have learned it early- parent or teacher accused us of showing off?
- We spoke up and got ridiculed?
- Fear people might see our flaws rather than us as a whole.
- Being visible means different things to different people.
- This fear can hold us back in business, public speaking, romantic relationships, any social activity.
- When we feel we need to hide, there is generally a sense of fear or shame (or both).

2009-05-31 Body Image Study Group
- I’m afraid to move outside my comfort zone.
- My father ridiculed me for “showing off”.
- Trusting my body guidance.
- Would like to release this belly fat.
- I don’t trust myself to choose appropriate clothing.

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